As women, we may wear so many hats. Besides being a mother, being a wife is not easy. Even if you are not married, just being a woman whether in a relationship or not is enough itself. A virtuous woman is a queen in anyone’s eyes, not just her man. Put yourself first by taking care of your needs as well as wants. You will then bear the fruits of the spirit and be able to care for your husband, children, and others.
Proverbs 12:4 KJV
A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.