Sometimes when you want to see a change in someone else, you need to be the change you wish to see. Use your personal willpower to put yourself out there and open up to give and receive. You never know what the outcome will be. At least you know you took a leap of faith by living witout regrets.
Hebrews 11:6 KJV
But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.